He’ll feel pressured, and you’ll miss out on the amazing feeling that comes from a man naturally wanting to secure things with you.Even though you may want a man to “just know” early on that you’re the only one for him, things usually don’t work this way with most men.Instead, a man will normally go through certain stages first before he decides you’re “it.” Here’s what they are, and how to handle them so he’s comfortable to move forward: In the early stages of dating, you take on one of two roles: the Convincer or the Resistor.
So take your foot off the accelerator and let a man initiate his interactions with you.
Only then will you progress to…This is that “in-between” stage.
That’s because the Convincer is the one who makes sure you spend time together and who pursues the Resistor.
If you are the one doing the convincing, you do not create the space to see if HE will step forward and pursue YOU. Your “resistance” will also inspire him to want to pursue you, rather than resist progress in your relationship.
It’s where you’ll be more curious about where things are going and wondering what his actions mean.