You see, it isn’t any one thing that makes the difference in online dating. I only started to get real success when I figured out the synergy between my username + photos + profile + emails.
He explains a little about it, and a light bulb goes off. This leads me to an overall self-improvement mission.
I put in Ph D level work into figuring this thing out. You want everything matching, looking good and working together. To go from not being able to get a date, to having to create a Date Manager to keep up with all the girls and being able to attempt 150 dates in 1 year is…well, it’s a big difference!
So the same habit of breaking down complex systems that I learned in engineering, went into learning about the much simpler online dating. “Synergy” means two or more things working together to produce a kick-ass result that is more than just the sum of its parts. I mean, you wouldn’t go on a date wearing swimming trunks, a dress shirt and boots right?
It’s why most guys get terrible results — they all seem exactly the same, average and B-O-R-I-N-G. I got brass knuckles and I’ll beat it into ya if I gotta.
It’s 10 pm on a Friday night and I’m buried in books at the library again.