You see, most guys ask a series of boring-ass questions hoping that at some point, the women will just drop her panties and have sex. You need to ask questions that get women talking about themselves. * What’s your favorite part of your body to be kissed and sucked? This is a GOOD thing as long as you don’t come off sleazy.
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You could each write down questions on scraps of paper--serious and fun so that the mood doesn't get too heavy--and throw them into jars (yours in one, his in another).
Take turns fishing out questions and answering them.