Know that most people mess most of their relationships up in their life and that is okay!
You only need to do it right once for it to make all the difference in the world!
I failed hundreds of times until I finally signed up for and met my wife in January 2011.
When you have taken thousands of steps already to succeed at dating and you know you are with the right person rather than just with a warm body, now comes the real work.
Everything you have done to get here has put you in the best position to succeed at dating and to fail epicly.
If things are going to fail, you want to waste as little time as possible.
I went through the first steps often in a sloppy and half assed manner with a determination to get to the reward.
What I did not understand was that the sloppier the foundation I built was and the more time I took to build it, the more painful and costly my failures were.