So, you write out a really long, thorough, detailed message to someone, and you send it -- and she never writes back.Confused and maybe a little miffed, you write her off as obviously not realizing what an awesome guy you are. e.g., it's like saying when you've got ,000 invested in Stock A, and
So, you write out a really long, thorough, detailed message to someone, and you send it -- and she never writes back.invested in Stocks B, C, D, and E, you're more likely to put your next 0 into Stock A again because you know it and trust it and that's your routine.They prefer the known over the unknown; they stick with what they're comfortable with.
I like to be thorough, and I like to cover all the points.
If you've read many articles on this site, I'm sure you already realize this. You know, people who don't know you from Jack -- you may be an exceptional human being, but they just don't know that yet.
A very well-spoken and clearly an educated guy, he sent me a message detailing a situation with a girl he knew... The basic gist of today's post is, basically, that this -- what we're about to talk about -- is how you write online dating messages and emails that don't get ignored...
and, in fact, get you exactly what you want: responses, phone numbers, dates, and success.
I was going to write about something else today -- I have a couple of big-concept posts I've been meaning to write up and get around to -- but, heck, the last post I put up was a big-concept post so I figured let's have a quick breather from that and get something a little lighter up first. I've been all too guilty of this myself -- sending super-long messages.